For 35 years I taught thousands of students to read, write, and think
critically. I often told them my only goal was to make them better humans,
better able to understand, contend with, and take part in a society. I told them
I did this selfishly, so that when I was old there would be good folks left to
take care of me. I told my students that this was an important time in their
lives, a time when everything was still possible. I told them how I wandered
through a few majors when I was in school, ending up in a career that had never
been on my radar. I told them they’d never find themselves more open to the
world, more open to new ideas. I wanted them to realize they were part of the
world.
I told them to pay attention. I warned them that the world would push
them around and take advantage of them if they weren’t smart enough to know when
they were being sold a line of bullshit. Over and over again, I said, “Don’t let
the world just wash over you.” I wanted them to take it all in, figure it out,
follow the things that were important, and to eventually add their voice to
whatever conversation mattered in their lives.
Even before I was an old guy, I
gave old guy type of advice on the last day of class. I told them how fast it
all went by, and I encouraged them to enjoy college since it had been my first
time on my own, and the first time I felt free to be my authentic self. I told
them to be kind. I told them that the worries and panics of their lives at that
moment would invariably pass or fade, and that when they made mistakes, to ask
for forgiveness and keep going, determined never to make that mistake again.
And
I worked as hard and as well as I could at the time. When I was young and dumb,
I did my best for my students, learning as much as teaching. When I was in my
30s and 40s and in charge of other instructors and grad students, I shared with
them my mistakes and successes equally to help them in their own teaching. And
when my peripatetic academic career (too many moves, giving up tenure, looking
for another cool town) led me to less and less stable teaching, I kept walking
into classrooms and giving my students the best of what I’d learned from those
who came before.
In my last year of teaching, plagued with anxiety and
depression – and a poorly maintained chronic illness – I never left a student
behind at the end of class. And I read every draft and final essay. I didn’t do
it because I’m such a good guy; I did it because I had professors when I was in
college who gave a shit about their jobs, and I did not want to dishonor them.
If they had been able to put up with me, the world’s worst college student of
1979, then that was a debt I owed. And indeed the 35 years did pass quickly, and
the career crashed to an end suddenly.
I had to have someone take over my
in-person classes for the last few weeks of a semester because of illness. I
never got to really say goodbye to my final students. The truth is I was burned
out from the whole path, a lot of moves, increasing instability in my own job,
and just the wear and tear of a profession and a student population that,
frankly, was nothing like those first young men and women I taught in the 80s.
But there was always love in it. There were always students who got it, who
played the game as it was designed, who read and wrote and struggled, and asked
for help, and challenged me, and fought to take their place in the world as a
reader, writer, and thinker. And some of them loved me. And some of them hated
me. And some completely dismissed me as an inconsequential boob. Students who
worked hard got As and Bs. (Probably not enough As, as I think about it now.)
And because I often became indifferent to those students who were indifferent to
the class, a lot of C minuses. If a student could paragraph and cite and
maintain control over language, I figured that was good enough. I let them pass,
and I was probably too soft on too many over the years. Even though the ratio of
students who wanted help got smaller as time went on, there were always rewards
as some students grew, struggled, overcame, and then found their authentic
voices.
My two favorite college professors have been dead for years. I was
unworthy of them. I didn’t want whatever education they were selling. I stared
out the window or doodled in a notebook for most of my very undistinguished
stays in their classes. But all these years later I still remember them. I
remember they loved their jobs. They had a love for their subject matter, and
they were always reaching, always teaching, always urging us along. Most of it
was wasted on me, and I’m the worse for it. But when I became a professor, they
remained in my mind. Marianne Brose and John Doebler. I earned the lowest C
minus in history from each. I learned too late to let them know what they had
meant to me. It was because of them that I did what I did, and they’ve been on
my mind a lot these past months. Why did they teach? What were their successes?
What did they regret? When they left, were they satisfied with what they’d done?
I was a college professor for 35 years, and despite my endless complaints about
higher education and the profession, I loved it all. I have been fortunate to
see young people gain control of the things they hold close in their hearts and
their heads, and I’ve helped them get those ideas onto a page, or a screen, or
just out into the world. I have no illusion about my value. I did what all
professors do; I taught the students in front of me the best I was able to for
as long as I could.
I still hear from students now and again, some from as many
as 30 years ago. Some of them are teachers and professors now. I hear from them
at odd times, little memories, shared stories. One, quite a few years ago, wrote
and said, “Do you remember me?” And I did. And I do. I remember them all, their
essays, their voices, the classrooms, and all the things we did.